Monday, September 28, 2015

18 Months Old

My little Annie Ashton (aka Bo-nanie, aka Sweets) is 18 MONTHS OLD, a whole 1.5 yrs!  As long as she is in diapers, she’s still my baby but let’s face it… she’s pretty much a full blown toddler and hardly a baby anymore.  I love each day and month she gets older, the older she gets, the quicker the time goes by too.  As strange as it sounds, I’m still looking forward to her getting older, although I love this age, I can’t wait until she can talk more and I can get inside her little mind and for all those funny little conversations we will have when driving home from daycare each day.  I think 2 will be a fun age with her.

As usual, nothing has change with our little fire cracker, she still feisty and a true handful!  I try not to compare her to others her age but its hard not to at times to notice how much more of a handful she is than others her age.  I love that demanding personality though; she’s really a force to be reckoned with but also a ball of happiness.  She’s the perfect combo of dynamite and joy all wrapped up in her 2 foot little self.

I hate to admit it, but we’ve kinda gone against the grain on one parenting aspect.  And it’s TV.  Aaron and I encourage her daily to watch TV, she is incredibly clingy and wants us right next to her at all times.  But when Clifford the Big Red Dog is on or Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, it’s like nothing around her exists.  Honestly, Mickey and Clifford are our in home babysitters, it’s fantastic to turn that on and be able to make dinner without her leached onto my leg.  So maybe TV is frowned upon by other parents but we are all about it.  Lately though, we realize that we may push it too much on her, she now runs up to me with the remote, pointing at the TV not be satisfied until I turn on a cartoon for her.  I’m honestly not too worried about it, her TV time is really minimal when looking at her day as a whole; she spends all day at daycare burning energy and exploring and we still do plenty of playtime at home too.

So funny story on that subject, one day I come out to the living room to find Aaron with the remote and as seriously as he could be he goes, “I’m so mad right now.  I can’t find that episode where Donald builds a clubhouse, it’s my absolute favorite.”  I looked at him blankly and was like “Are you serious right now?!”  My word, we need some more adult interaction in our lives if we as parents are obsessing over our favorite Mickey Mouse episodes! 

Annie is really into puzzles right now.  Not jigsaw puzzles but the 10 piece ones to fit into the shapes.  She can whip a puzzle together in no time.  Even taking 5 puzzles and mixing all the pieces up and she can slap all 5 puzzles together simultaneously.  I love watching her little mind work as she holds onto a puzzle piece, searching all 5 puzzles for the right spot.  It’s really incredible to me. 

She still loves books and we spend about 30 min every night reading in her room.  It used to drive me nuts when she would flip a page on me when reading to her and I would fight her on it, insisting that we have to finish each page before we could move on.  And if she got up and left me, I would have to sit and finish the kid book by myself because my OCD couldn’t handle leaving a book unfinished.   I’m totally over that now and can rehearse books from memory while Annie flips thru the pages.  I love that she can sit and read with me for a half hour every night, completely enthralled in it. 

Annie still isn’t into toys much.  She likes legos and her play kitchen but the only things she likes about her play kitchen is opening all the doors and finding play food inside and rearranging it.  She’s really into organizing and actually does a really good job of picking up her toys and books for me.  I feel like she’s my little mini-me when it comes to that type of stuff. 

Annie still isn’t talking much, she knows and understands a lot of what we are saying.  There is still the Mamas, Dadas, water, hi, ya for yes, uh-oh, up, and lots of animal noises but not saying the names of the animals, head shaking no or yes, and using baby sign language still to tell us please, thank you and more.  When I ask her where Charley is, she points to the dog, when I ask her where is Annie, she points to herself, she definitely knows who everyone is and probably comprehends even more than we realize.  She certainly babbles a lot and even reads books to herself out loud, I’m not worried about her lack of vocabulary yet, she’ll get there soon enough. 

She is still an incredibly finicky eater.  There have been weeks where life has been so chaotic with all the house stuff that my bad parenting has allowed her to live on hot dogs for a week because they are her favorite food and it’s the one thing I don’t have to fight her on to get her to eat.  I’ve even worried about how I may be potentially setting her up for a career in the 4th of July televised hot dog eating contest, good gravy please Annie don’t ever be one of those people that shove 64 hot dogs in their mouth in 10 minutes, that would not be a proud moment for me!   

What I love about this age is that even though she fights us on stuff and gets upset when she doesn’t get her way, she still runs to us for a hug during those tears.  I’ve told Aaron that this won’t last for long and we need to cherish those little comforting tear-filled hugs because soon enough she will be kicking/hitting us, rebelling and running from us, saying who knows what when we don’t let her get her way.  Aaron is way better at not giving in to her than I am.  I may be more of the spoiler and give-in to her every request where Aaron is better at standing firm saying no you cannot have a 6th hog dog, eat your veggies while she wails because she can’t finish the entire package of Oscar Myer hot dogs in one sitting.  #Thestruggleisreal.

She also seems to have an opinion awful early on what she wears.  If it has a dog on it, she won’t fight me.  (It’s the only clothes I let her wear with animals is the ones with dogs on them, outside of her PJs).  If I try to put her in plaid or stripes, she screams and yells.  It’s like how is she so opinionated in her clothing already?!  This isn’t good…  I find her a lot of times in her room and she is going thru her clothes, putting on several pairs of PJs on over each other.  She’s especially obsessed with shoes, kinda like her Father is.  She seems to already be a little fashionista and voices when she doesn’t like my outfit selection for her. 
Dog on shirt approval

2 shirts/2 pants, this girl loves to make her own style


Our little Annie is really something.  I just love her to pieces!  That little demanding personality is really something but it’s what makes her Annie and her smile melts my heart every single time.  Happy 18 months Bo-naners!   Mama and Dada are over the moon for you, every single night we tell each other how lucky we are and how special you are to us! 

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Good-Bye To Our First House

And just like that, we are no longer owners of our home and are now renters.  Let me tell you how we got to this point…

The Deciding Point

In January, Aaron and I were contemplating if it was the right time to upgrade to more space.  We love our cozy first house but it was obvious we were running out of space and I’m not even someone who collects clutter.

We went to quite a few open houses to get a feel for what we liked/didn’t like as we really didn’t have an exact idea of what we were even looking for.  Quickly, it was realized our budget needed to be up’d to get what we wanted; it’s amazing how many homes are outdated so we up’d our budget and narrowed our search to new builts.  After walking thru many 2-stories and ranches, we really loved the feel of a ranch.  We currently live in a split-level but it’s basically just a ‘raised’ ranch and I do like having everything on one level.  We also loved how much space the ranch basements have over the 2 stories.  We then started narrowing our search to ranches specifically.  This dragged on for months. 

Meanwhile, Back At the Ranch…

During this time, I started to notice how unsafe our current house was becoming for a toddler.  We have large windows in our living room that start at about 6 inches off the floor and span the height of the wall, which I’ve always loved because they bring in some amazing natural light but they are so low, Annie has a tendency to run full speed right into them and it scares me to death at the thought of her flying thru a window and falling a ½ a story down.  Not only that, but we can’t open those windows like we use to because having just the screen is even more dangerous. 

Another danger I just can’t really baby proof is the ledge over our stairs that overlook our entry way.  Annie likes to climb on the couch and then tries to climb up on that ledge at times.  Terrifying to think of her falling over the top of those and again, basically down a ½ story flight of stairs.  Our living room isn’t big enough to really better shuffle our furniture around to prevent this, regardless, some piece of furniture will be on that wall in which she can climb up there.  Totally unsafe.

Our deck is a very nice 400 square feet 2 level deck.  The 2 steps down to the lower part of the deck is just a nuisance!  The 2 steps span 20 feet across the entire deck so I can’t really baby proof it.  Annie has actually gotten better about not flying off those 2 stairs but she still does on occasion.  One of our requirements when looking for a new house is to have a flat lot so we don’t even have to have a deck, a patio is a must have!   Our deck looks terrible constantly; the work needed to maintain our cherry red deck has been a nightmare.

Another downfall to our current house is all the bedrooms are clustered in the back of the house.  Charley is notorious for making a bunch of racket in the middle of the night, which wakes up Annie.  Or just us even getting ready for bed sometimes wakes her up, we need more separation between the bedrooms in the house.  In the house we will be moving to, the kid’s rooms are on the opposite side of the house as the Master will be on.  There are downfalls to having them spaced that far apart but in my opinion there are more pros than cons.

The Unfindable Perfect House

In late April, we were tired of searching for our house over the last 4 months, it just wasn’t out there.  Everything we walked thru that was almost perfect there would have one thing about it that would make it a deal breaker for us.  The house for us that was nearly perfect we got to talking to the home builder and thought what the heck, let’s build!  We aren’t in any hurry to move, we have the time to do it and we will get all those design aspects that we want.  So we signed the papers, picked a lot out in Waukee (which is about 10 minutes west from where we are now) and started the process!

Showings, Showings, and More Showings!

Once the framing started to go up, we decided it’s time to sell our current house.  Lots of decluttering and moving stuff to a storage unit was necessary.  We made a few home improvements but mostly just did a lot of staging with our current furniture.  We put it on the market and had a full week of showings.  What a pain to try to keep a house spick and span, put Charley in daycare every day and a lot of eating out in the evenings since we couldn’t be home during the showings.  We even got kicked off of a restaurant patio for having our dog with us.  Finally on the following Sunday, we got 2 offers in!  One of the offers was more enticing as they would let us stay in our house until ours would be ready, so essentially letting us stay the extra month that we needed.  I liked the idea of not having to move twice but we countered both and luckily the renter option was the accepted offer. 

After a bit of a stressful inspection with some additional negotiating, we finally closed on our house this Friday.  I couldn’t be happier about being homeless right now (well… renters)!   And now for all the packing; trying to pack with a clingy toddler is practically impossible.  Aaron and I have been trading off weekends taking her back to the Grandparent’s so that one of us can stay behind and pack.  It has been an efficient solution and actually kinda nice to wake up to a quiet house and eat my breakfast without little hands all over my plate. 

Bittersweet Ending

I do love my current house and it’s filled of great memories.  It was our first house, we moved into it just a week prior to our wedding.  We’ve had lots of dinner parties and good times here.  We did a bathroom and laundry room renovation that made us realize we never ever want a fixer upper.  We brought our fur baby home here.   We crafted a beautiful nursery here to bring our baby girl home to.  We watched Annie take her first steps here and giggle thru the halls.  As happy as we are to be moving on, it’s still a bittersweet moment.  


I’ll fill you in on the new house, for right now we are just focusing on one step at a time.  It’s been a process, starting this in January and 10 months later we should finally be in our new home!   Wish us luck in the moving process!  

Our First House...